The last couple months have really been intense. The Universe is supporting us to become more transparent. That means.. there have been situations that presented themselves to assist us in revealing our true feelings, emotions, reactions, and who we are on a core level. The good news is … there is no hiding behind any mask.

It helps us communicate who we are and where we stand. If people around you like you.. Great! If they don’t like you… Great! Perhaps someone you thought was a dear friend or confidant, seemed to “turn on you.” Well, they are unveiling their mask so you can see in to who they really are, and where their vibration level stands right now. Perhaps you are used to reacting in a cautious, calm manner, and some situations have presented themselves to cause you to react more aggressive and emotionally. Congratulations.. you are being you and releasing what needs to be released! The goal is to really be ourselves, no matter what situations or circumstance.

We’ve been conditioned to “be” a certain way around certain people in certain situations. The energy now is supporting us to “be” us, our authentic selves, at all

times in every situation. Can you imagine if you were YOU at all times? I hope your answer is ” YES I AM!” If it is not, imagine the freedom you would feel if you were YOU at all times? This is our natural state.. to feel free because we ARE FREE! We have a beautiful soul, a Spirit, that knows no bounds. We live in our human body which is a limitation of sorts in our physical reality, and then we create these silly “rules and expectations” we must abide by. ” I can’t say this because of this.” “I can’t do this because of this..” That’s all nonsense. You can do whatever you want, when you want it. Everything is a choice. We just create the illusion of “I can’t” to make it easier for us not to change.

What has happened is we’ve created a cycle for ourselves. Everything is a cycle. A relationship is a cycle. A job is a cycle. Behavior patterns are cycles. We sometimes think, ” It takes too much energy to break out of this cycle, and start a new one.” Well our free Spirit,  that’s in our body, surrounded by our emotions, and thoughts is really feeling caged and limited.  That Spirit wants to break out of the body! The Spirit feels the push to “get out of the cycle,” and our  Mind (thoughts & emotions which surround the body and Free Spirit within) says.. ” Nope, it takes too much energy to get out of this cycle.”…. Repeating this process, the Free Spirit feels even more walled in.

It eventually will win and pushes so hard to get out of the limitations, that..

1) Our cycle becomes so out of resonance with us that we feel it is easier to start a new cycle than to continue in the same cycle ..and / or

2) We become pushed out of our cycle in a way that does not go smoothly .. and / or

3) Our emotions have been so suppressed and are so out of balance that we act, say, and do things in an extreme manner or that are “out of character” to get us out of the cycle .

Once our Spirit breaks free and creates a new cycle, we are then more in balance. I recommend you break the cycle instead of delaying it. If you delay, sometimes the way you end the cycle is not “the way you had hoped for.”

  This is another way to understand what is happening around us. If your Spirit doesn’t like the relationship, job, or roles you are playing, your Free Spirit will make you feel uncomfortable. It will finally get so uncomfortable, it breaks through to make change, and thus our Authentic Self is “born.”

It is like a chick breaking out of the egg. Sometimes it looks ugly breaking out of the shell, but after they are born, those chicks are cute and cuddly looking.

Lets get back to cute and cuddly, (choosing to get out of our cycle in diving timing) instead of being a hot mess… (being forced out of our cycle because we delayed.)

Choose to end the cycle ahead of time, instead of drawing out the cycle that has an inevitable end.

Helpful Hint: (Instead of saying ” I can’t” Turn it around and say ” I AM.” You don’t want to use ” I CAN,” because you are putting into the Universe that you can do anything, but you aren’t doing it. If you use I AM, it is now in the present, saying you are doing this now.)

About the Author

Whitney McNeill is a Certified Medium, Reiki Master-Teacher and Spiritual Mentor. She is the owner of Messenger of Spirit, LLC, and the co-founder of the International Institute of Advanced Metaphysics (International I. A.M.), in Sedona, Arizona. For more information about services, classes & retreats, visit www.MessengerofSpirit.com or www.InternationalIAM.com.